We address the continual and endless questions generated by children who don't visit a parent, and by parents who don't understand why that child isn't visiting. I remember telling a group of women who were constantly upset and complaining about the fact that their children didn't visit them enough that I wondered if they considered the absence of their children a positive perhaps a testimony to the fact that they have done a good job and that their children are out there living their lives and now we are here in our retirement, and we have got to craft our own lives. Now we have to learn to live without our children, some of us have learned to live with the loss of death of a child and the absolute total complete absence of a child is a painful thing.

What do you hope listeners will do or understand after reading the FAQs?

I personallyhope listeners will be absolutely fired up about contacting us and understanding what a tremendous resource we can be when they are looking for a place to live after retirement. I have so many answers to all of those questions. In fact where I live is the most wonderful place to live even before you retire. There are a lot of single men out there approaching retirement, who would love to have their apartments or their homes cleaned for them have their groceries delivered for them have their meals made for them, and this would be the perfect place to be so you don't have to be a retiree to listen to what we have to say when we're telling" stories from the porch"

What does your ideal listener look like?

My ideal listener from Stories from the Porch, Is someone between the ages of 55 and 105.